christie ferrari

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3 ways to ask a potential new friend for their number.

3 ways to ask a potential new friend for their number.

-Make it feel natural:
I loved chatting, mind if I grab your number to stay in touch?

This approach is assertive, polite, and respectful. This balance of directness and politeness makes it effective without appearing pushy or demanding.

-Compliment their energy + invite
You seem so fun! We should meet up for (X activity) sometime. Let’s swap numbers to keep the conversation going.

This approach combines a compliment with an invite, making the request feel mutual and engaging. It is both friendly and assertive.

-Interest based/shared activity:
I’d love to hear more about (X/shared interest) - let’s connect over text.

This approach works because it focuses on a shared interest, creating an immediate connection. It also clearly states the intention to continue the conversation, while making it easy for the other person to agree by simply exchanging numbers. This approach is both genuine and efficient, making it a great way to initiate further contact.