3 responses to use when you disagree with someone on politics & want to still get along.

-Can you share more about your opinion on that? Nod. Then change the subject.

This response demonstrates empathy and that you’re interested in understanding their perspective, which can help prevent someone from getting defensive or feeling attacked. By nodding you’re showing that you’re listening to them and then changing the subject demonstrates that you’re not interested in continuing the discussion further.  This approach prevents you from coming off confrontational or dismissive while you’re still able to preserve the relationship by avoiding unnecessary conflict.

-I stopped that…I stopped talking about politics, the vote is what counts.

This response is direct and clear and explicitly states your decision to end the discussion. By focusing on voting you avoid attacking the other person’s viewpoint, reducing the chances of getting into a personal debate, avoiding unnecessary conflict, and preserving the relationship.

-I respect that’s a different opinion.

This response acknowledges the other person’s viewpoint, demonstrating that you’ve listened to their perspective and understand that they have a different opinion, while showing that you’re also confident in your own beliefs. It also prevents you from feeling the need to justify or defend your position, which can lead to further disagreements.

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Dr. C