Comebacks to use when you catch someone sizing you up.

-Did I pass the inspection?

This response subverts power dynamics. Sizing someone up often implies a power imbalance where the observer feels superior and the observed feels scrutinized. This helps you flip the script instead of being the passive object of observation and putting the onus back on the other person. It also has a playful tone which can disarm the situation, making it less confrontational while still asserting yourself. It helps you set a boundary and communicates that you are not oblivious to their gaze.

-Hi - were you trying to get my attention? I noticed you looking this way.

This response directly addresses their gaze and shifts the focus back onto the other person and suggest that they initiated the interaction. It then allows the other person to respond honestly to potentially initiate a genuine interaction. This approach is more genuine and can be useful for networking or building connections.

-Did something catch your eye?

This response subtly implies that you’re curious about their interest and acknowledges their gaze without being overtly confrontational. It invites them to explain their interest and opens the door for further conversation, potentially leading to a more positive interaction.