3 comebacks to use when your friend told you they saw your social media post but they never commented on it & they do so on their other friends.

-Scroll by and no love, ouch (in a playful tone)
This acknowledges that your friends behavior bothered you in a straightforward, yet lighthearted way. The playful tone & humor prevents it from sounding like an attack, avoiding defensiveness, & the feedback is easier to digest. To make sure it sounds like a honest & casual observation, it needs to be delivered in a genuinely lighthearted way - if there is any underlying resentment in your tone, it won’t come off assertive.

-Let me know your thoughts next time you’re scrolling.
This phrase acknowledges their comment in a straightforward yet lighthearted way that is respectful without creating tension or damaging the relationship. You’re also encouraging engagement in a friendly & open way rather than pointing out their lack of interaction directly. It also doesn’t dwell on the past and instead invites them to engage in the future. It’s easygoing and avoids any hint of criticism. Overall, it’s a friendly nudge than a call-out, which keeps it assertive without any negative undertones.

-Leaving me hanging with just a view (in a playful tone)?
This response directly addresses your friend’s lack of interaction on your social media posts. You’re not avoiding the topic or bottling up frustration or resentment. While it’s direct, the playful tone helps keep it from being accusatory or confrontational, making it more likely that your friend will respond without getting defensive. To ensure it doesn’t come off as subtle criticism & instead as a lighthearted observation, make sure to say it in a genuine and playful tone.

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Dr. C