3 comebacks to use when someone is rude to you, part 4.

3 comebacks to use when someone is rude to you, part 4.

Are you trying to be helpful or hurtful?
-This response is disarming, as it can take the person off guard and make them reflect on their behavior. It questions their intention behind their rudeness, which might cause them to reconsider their approach. And it subtly suggests there might be a better way to communicate their point.

Are you okay?
-This response is disarming as it can take the person by surprise and disarm them from further rudeness. It can also shift the focus from their rudeness to their well-being, potentially causing them to reflect on their behavior. Asking “are you okay?” might also open the door for the person to explain themselves since sometimes rudeness can stem from having a bad day or having personal things going on.

Did you mean to come across as rude?
-This response is also disarming and it calls out their behavior but gives them the chance to save face if it was unintentional. It also leaves the door open for them to apologize or explain themselves, potentially leading to a more positive interaction.

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