3 responses to use when someone cuts you in line.

3 responses to use when someone cuts you in line.

-Hi, I’m next.

This response is direct, clear, and short - leaving no room for ambiguity. You’re asserting yourself and if delivered in a polite tone, you’ll avoid escalating the situation.

-Hi, I don’t think you meant to cut the line, it starts over there.

This response directly addresses what happened in a respectful and assertive manner while also setting a boundary. To help deescalate the situation, suggesting the person made a mistake rather than intentionally cutting in line can be a good option.

-Say nothing. It’s not worth your energy.

Not saying anything doesn’t mean you’re not asserting your boundaries, it only means you’re choosing a different approach to handle the situation - especially if it’s tense or the line is moving quickly. This approach avoids escalation and avoids any unnecessary conflict while you’re preserving peace to assert your position.

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Xo,
Dr. C