3 responses to use when they say you’re so shy/ he’s so shy/ your child is so shy.

3 responses to use when they say you’re so shy/ he’s so shy/ your child is so shy.

-He observes first.

This response avoids negative labeling and reinforcing shyness. Instead you’re empowering your child by highlighting this observation as a strength and promotes a positive self-image of them. It also shows that you as a parent are confident and comfortable with your child’s personality.

-He’s thoughtful as he takes in his surroundings.

This response avoids negative connotations with being shy, which can be self-limiting and can negatively impact self-esteem. Instead this focuses on a more empowering and positive quality, introspection.

-He’s outgoing when he feels safe to do so.

This response is another way to focus on a positive quality that suggests social confidence. It also encourages others to respect their personality and that their social behavior is their choice based on their comfort level.

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Xo,
Dr. C