3 comebacks to use to stop an argument.

3 comebacks to use to stop an argument.

-No one has to be right or wrong. It’s okay to disagree.

This response helps moves the conversation away from who’s right and wrong and towards understanding each other’s viewpoints. It acknowledges that disagreements are natural and doesn’t dismiss anyone’s feelings. It also creates space for a more productive discussion where both sides can be heard

-Are we arguing or how can I help answer a question?

By questioning if it’s an argument, it can prompt both of you to take a step back and assess the situation. It can help determine if the other person is genuinely seeking information or simply trying to start a fight. Reframing the situation as a question can encourage a more civil and productive conversation.

-I hadn’t realized that perspective. I’m sorry.

This response shows you were listening and are open to the other persons viewpoint and it takes responsibility for your part in the argument and if you hurt someone’s feelings during the exchange. If feelings weren’t hurt, you can replace I’m sorry for: “you’re right, I hadn’t realized that perspective.”

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Dr. C

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